The Immersive Retreat

Three days to rewrite the beliefs running your life.

A private, fully-guided immersion for founders and investors — designed to target and reprogram the mental blocks that quietly set the ceiling on everything you build.

3 days 1-1 Fully private Montecito, CA
Why this exists

You've optimized everything external. The last frontier is internal.

You've built the company, raised the round, hired the team. And still — the same patterns, the same ceiling, the same quiet voice in your mind persists directing your behavior. The retreat is built to go where strategy can't: the belief structures underneath the behavior.

What you walk away with

A fast and precise reprogramming.

Target 1–2 specific patterns, remove the reactivity associated with them, and reprogram your mind to run with new patterns of your choice.

Example Patterns

"I'm not good enough"

→

"I will learn and be successful"

"I cannot control my anger"

→

"When I'm angry I breathe and speak with clarity"

"I'm distracted focusing on many things"

→

"I focus on the single most important thing"

The arc

A guided journey in three movements.

The retreat day is the centerpiece — but the transformation is built before you arrive and made permanent in the weeks after.

01Before2 sessions

Prepare the ground

In the weeks leading up, you work one-on-one with Ben to get clear on what you truly want and to sense where the blocks may lie. Together you shape a fluid plan for the retreat day — combining the best new and ancient tools, all grounded in what works.

  • 80-minute intake session — limiting-belief mapping & medical history review
  • 55-minute tools training — IPF, EMDR & technique orientation
  • Set intentions, select meaningful photos & music
02During2 nights

Go offline. Go deep.

Two and a half days completely unplugged at a private estate in Montecito. Arrival night eases you in with bodywork and the amenities. The retreat day moves through grounding, fasting, intention and the core rewiring work — with integration time every 60–90 minutes. The integration morning anchors what shifted before you head home.

  • Arrival night: Healthy dinner, bodywork session, sauna, cold plunge, devices off, review intentions
  • Retreat day: Grounding & meditation, fasting, intention setting, beach/preserve walk, core rewiring work
  • Retreat night: Healthy meal, continued retreat work, amenities, visualization & anchoring
  • Integration morning: Meditation, breakfast, anchoring & coaching, gentle integrative bodywork, noon departure
03After2 integration sessions

Make it permanent

You may know everything about riding a bike — but until you ride it, nothing has integrated. The four weeks after the retreat are the deepest investment, and where the rewiring becomes who you are. A streamlined daily practice plus coaching holds the new pattern in place.

  • Streamlined daily practice — 10 minutes/day for 4 weeks
  • 50-minute integration session with Ben — 1 week after
  • 50-minute integration session with Ben — 3 weeks after
The method

The Rewire Method

By treating mind and body as one system, the retreat makes leaps that are slow or impossible when approached separately.

01

Recall

Surface the belief and the moment it was written.

02

Release

Discharge what the body has held around it.

03

Reframe

See the old story for what it was — and isn't.

04

Rewrite

Author the new belief to your specifications.

05

Retrain

Anchor it daily until it becomes who you are.

The place

Chateau Bear — a private estate, surrounded by nature.

A secluded retreat in Montecito, a short drive from Santa Barbara. You'll stay in a private suite — king bed, ensuite steam sauna — with all meals prepared for you. Devices off at the door. Nothing to manage but your own transformation.

Chateau Bear — Montecito, California
Private suite Secluded Barrel sauna Cold plunge Hot tub Healthy meals 5 min to beach
Ready?

Those who change the world are those craziest enough to rewire their minds.

Drop your email and we'll be in touch to explore if the Retreat is the right move.